Customer Service Tip #3 – The Power of Pleasant

female sales clerk at cash register

The skills and actions involved in creating excellent customer service are many and varied. Achieving all of them, even half of them, with every staff member, especially in a large corporation, demands constant vigilance and commitment.

Fortunately, the foundation of customer service is easy and very straightforward. Its absence is costly resulting in both the loss of customers and qualified staff.

A recent early-morning retail experience had me thinking about all the challenges we face โ€“ labor shortages, supply chain issues, the economy (to name just a few) โ€“ and the societal hum of stress, frustration and anger. And how this foundation of customer service is the one thing we can absolutely count on to make a positive difference.

What’s the easy, straightforward foundation of excellent customer service? And how is it related to my recent experience?

The First Experience

In mid-July both my husband and I had a 10 am appointment booked at a nearby retail location that also served as a community medical hub. The location was new to us. It was very easy to find and to park near the retail entrance.

When booking the appointment, I received the instruction “Use Medical Clinic Entrance”. With a large parking lot and road construction directly in front of the store, this entrance was not visible to me at all. Because I’m a bit compulsive about following directions, I went into the store to see what I could discover. Once inside I also quickly picked up some necessities.

At the very back of the store was a large sign saying “Medical Clinic”. Could David and I just walk back there, or should we be somewhere else? I decided to ask the cashier standing nearby who was talking with a friend.

Two things happened: 1) When she noticed me, she displayed her annoyance at my interrupting her social conversation; 2) When I explained my dilemma, she rolled her eyes, sighed and responded with sarcasm that the entrance was at the very back of the building. Then she rang up my purchases with obvious impatience.

Her attitude definitely got under my skin but I thanked her and remained pleasant. Because pleasant is easy. All it takes is a smile, which both warms and lightens our tone of voice. Pleasant is the extremely straightforward foundation of customer service excellence.

Walking back to my car, I wondered how the cashier’s attitude would impact others during the long day ahead. In the past two years, most of us have experienced some tough times … and for many, that’s continuing. Anger, impatience and even rage seem to be close to the surface. The simple act of being pleasant is not only important for customer service, it’s an essential survival skill.

The Second Experience

I easily found the correct entrance to the medical clinic. When David and I entered, more confusion ensued. I knew we weren’t expected at the family walk-in clinic. There was another space nearby with chairs but no signage … and no one there. As is my common practice, I asked another staff person for help.

Again, the answer was snippy, impatient and sarcastic. Sigh.

The Plea for Improvement

We’ve got to do better than this, especially now. If you are the leader of customer-facing staff, take the time to train and support the skill of being pleasant. It’s simple, easy and basic. Your staff’s experiences with customers will improve; they’ll get more enjoyment from their work.

And if you’re the customer, and someone’s attitude gets under your skin, set the example โ€“ be pleasant in return.

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2 thoughts on “Customer Service Tip #3 – The Power of Pleasant”

  1. So true and so hard… especially when you can’t get what you are looking for and you are the customer. I know…. empathy – and you don’t know what that person is dealing with. Sometimes it is hard… but you are absolutely right that tamping it down and being purposeful about being pleasant makes everyone feel better!

    Thanks for the reminder.

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    • It is hard. And I think there’s a general exhaustion impacting each of us and that makes being impatient very easy. ๐Ÿ™‚ But, yes, being purposeful about being pleasant definitely improves communication and makes all of our days work a little better. Thanks for your comment, Stephanie.

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